Hello there. I am Irene Boss, and I visit NYC on occasion.



While I am visiting, I utilize a large well appointed private play space with full amenities. (These environments are discreet.)


Play is consensual. Scenes are pre-negotiated, and play partners usually identify as one or more of the following: bondage bottom, spanking enthusiast, fetishist, cross dresser, role play psycho dramatist, masochist or slave, etc. Mark my word that you will get everything you negotiate in a complete role reversal and power exchange, as I do not project a negative attitude. Domination is about control. I am mature, educated and articulate. I am easy to get along with outside of scene play, yet extremely controlling in scene with a sharp wit, a firm hand and a great sense of humor. I am a CMU grad with post level graduate education: A Dominant Kinky Female perfectionist, seriously Discipline minded with a wink and a sly grin. Dominatrix with a smile at your service. My satisfaction is your goal.


Scene interests include: Erotic and predicament Bondage, Electrics, Whipping, CP/spanking scenarios, Sadism, Sensation play, and Fetish exploration.

Bondage (erotic to punitive): Predicaments atop bondage furniture, suspension, body bags, rope (hemp, jute, cotton and nylon), confinements, straight jackets, bondage mitts, hoods, blindfolds and gags (sensory deprivation), encasements, mummifications, and sensory overload. Bondage with nipple play and/or CBT, and/or electric CBT, Venus 2000, SKM.

Discipline (simple to strict): Corporal scenarios (bamboo, rattan, acrylic, carbonite, martinet or metal), bullwhipping (nylon and leather whips of 12, 18 and 24 plait), signal whipping - 18 plait, flogging, OTK hand spanking, hairbrush spanking, paddling, tawsing and strapping.

Sensation Exploration: Nipple play, CBT, CP (Corporal) with paddles, slappers, lashes, single tail, bull whips, buggy whips, signal whips, crops, and canes, and custom bondage devices, chastity play, dt, deportment (slave training - postures, commands, and etiquette - also part of D/s).

Fetish Play: You may be invited to wear fetish clothing (as a fetish bottom) like corsets or boots (cross dressing). There may be worship of gloves, boots and/or shoes worn by the Me. Forced female transformation may occur. If you desire to wear wardrobe (corset, boots, high heels etc...) in a scene with Me, do make arrangements at least 1 week in advance. Tickle torture may be imposed for tickling sceneries. I may use advanced electro play in medical scenes (always pre negotiated).


I am particular and strive to create outstanding personalized BDSM encounters.


Health Information: Playspace is nonsmoking. No exchange of sexual body fluids. Hospital grade disinfectants are used on gear and equipment. I am CPR certified, SSC observant, RACK aware, and do consult regularly with scene friendly medical professionals concerning BDSM safety awareness.


I am a complex person who's interests and fantasies overlap and intertwine. Some things are repeated to emphasize this point. As an Internationally acclaimed Domina and BDSM filmmaker I have traveled extensively to learn technique and ideology. I began film production in 1995. 200+ films have been produced by MIB Productions. My involvement in professional FemDomBDSM has included scenes at My discretion, films, select custom videos, public appearances, a message board (now archived privately in members), a membership website and other websites.



Ms Boss in NYC


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Limits, Respect and Etiquette:


You must be of consenting legal adult age.


I am accepting play partners. Be exceptional, generous, respectful, and possess the ability to clearly communicate about BDSM.


Safety and Responsibility: If you have a condition that places you at high risk, I will consult with scene friendly medical professionals on your behalf before you visit the studio so there will be no dangerous outcome. If you have a cardiac implant (or heart issue) there will be no electrical or breath deprivation play for your safety. Bondage and suspension safety techniques are observed for individuals with low body circulation. In the event of a medical emergency, 911 will be called. Get an OK from your doctor if you are unsure about the effects a BDSM session could have. BDSM may cause the same physical stress as a heavy workout. Having a physical once a year is a good idea.


Health / safety policy: Intense sensations are fully negotiated pre play. Necessary equipment is autoclave sterilized. Chux pads used on equipment, studio is properly cleaned, no outdoor shoes allowed inside.


Limits: The sign of a healthy personality. Limits are respected as activities not engaged in. Being "pushed" or having an intense scene does not mean that limits will be disrespected. Please be aware of how I think about these things.


Privacy: For discretionary reasons, do not give out My contact information. I not engage in drama and/or gossip. I am not a referral service. Respect of privacy is greatly appreciated and reciprocal.


Please be aware: Your request must be deemed sincere in order to receive a response. There will be no response if you are vague, do not give a full name, do not suggest dates and times, misspell or abbreviate words, mention illegal activities, or request incompatible activities.


For organizational purposes, email is necessary.

If you have not visited previously, do use one of the two contact methods below.


Ms Boss Visiting NYC

Important: Your application must adhere to my guidelines in order to be considered.

Introduction to Ms Boss in NYC  pittsburghboss@protonmail.com

Your first and last name

Your City, State and Country

Your age (you must be a legal adult)

A landline or cellular contact phone number where you may be discreetly reached (we will both decide when)

A few dates and times you are available to play

Your FemDom BDSM areas of interest and your limits

Scene-relevant medical issues and any medications

The word on this page that is listed in all CAPS with an exclamation point
A description of your play style
Your optimal scene length (Generally between 2 to 6 hours)


*If you have not heard back via email within 48 hours, there is a good chance your inquiry was not received.

If you prefer to use a contact form or have not received a response though the email address above, do resubmit your inquiry here: Secure contact form


Preparations instructions and the exact location of the studio will be sent after a deposit has been received


Scene Writing - from those who have visited

Credit, Cancellation and No show policies


Thank you for taking the time to read this important information. It is appreciated!


Ms Boss


The World Famous Pittsburgh Compound (Ms Boss's home base) is a FemDom BDSM play space containing 6 opulent theme rooms with custom built equipment to Ms Boss's exacting specifications. There you may expect dedicated play spaces, rarified atmosphere, ambience, incense, mirrors, and sound systems. (Some images taken at the Pittsburgh Compound.)