Pittsburgh Dominatrix . Com / nyc . htm

I visit New York City privately and periodically for scenes of 5 hours and greater.

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I rent a top of the line boutique playspace in NYC in which to conduct my scene play. This location is discreet, extremely well equipped, and contains many large custom structural pieces of unique bondage furniture very similar to what can be experienced in my own studio in Pittsburgh Pennsylvania. I enjoy scenarios of 5 hours and longer when traveling to NYC. Expect dedicated BDSM environments, ambience, and esoteric scene music. Full amenities (bathroom and running water) included. 

Though I do enjoy traveling to NYC and playing there, it is very expensive for me to do so. I arrange a modest yet clean hotel for myself to stay in (I do not play in NYC hotels and will not do so for discretionary reasons) and must house my vehicle, which I bring with specialized personal gear. I am leaving the comfort of my own studio in Pittsburgh and driving a full day. There is set up time and related stress. Please do not contact me to attempt to haggle or dictate what my rate or scene length times should be, or to suggest shorter time periods and different arrangements. Sorry - I but I will immediately cut contact with you if you do this. It is unfortunate that I have to state this on this page, but I would like to save time and bad feelings if seeing me is not financially possible, or for the amount of time I require minimally. The rate is specific for NYC trips and it is certainly not "high" for the region (I have done the research and I know this), my experience level and reputation, and my expenses with regards to this situation. The rate is comparable to what other high end BDSM professionals already ask for who are based in NYC. If you are on a BDSM "budget" please do not approach me about playtime in NYC. If you are a well heeled business man who is accustomed to having high end BDSM experiences, can supply real references of who you have engaged with, and feel you will be comfortable with my tribute and and that we are compatible - then by all means do contact me about the possibilities. My proton mail auto responder will additionally tell you exactly what I need. Thank you.


If we have played before in NYC or already know each other, there is an optional and complimentary add on of several hours of social time post scene as a wind down. No additional remuneration is required for this. Please let me know when you send your email if you would also like to pursue this add on and I will discuss it with you. To avoid social awkwardness, this is only available to people I already know and it is specific to my NYC trips only. There is so much to do in NYC that it seemed a good idea to include this option to reward the people I already know and enjoy playing with. :)  NAMASTE

Play is consensual. Scenes are pre-negotiated, and play partners usually identify as one or more of the following: bondage bottom,  fetishist, cross dresser, role play psycho dramatist, masochist or slave, etc. Mark my word that you will get everything you negotiate in a complete role reversal and power exchange, as I do not project a negative attitude. Domination is about control. I am mature, educated and articulate, easy to get along with outside of scene play yet extremely controlling in scene, with a sharp wit, a firm hand and a great sense of humor. I am a CMU graduate with post level graduate education: A Dominant Kinky Female perfectionist, seriously Discipline minded with a wink and a sly grin. Dominatrix with a smile at your service. My satisfaction is your goal!

Scene interests include (but are not limited to)...

Bondage (erotic to punitive): Predicaments atop bondage furniture, device, metal, suspension, body bags, rope (hemp, jute, cotton and nylon), confinements (cage), straight jackets, bondage mitts, hoods, blindfolds and gags (sensory deprivation), encasements, mummifications, and sensory overload. Bondage with nipple play and/or CBT, electric CBT, Nova Pro, Shock Spot, Venus 2000, and various *fun machines.

Sensation Play (sensual to sadistic): Nipple play, CBT, CP, custom bondage devices, chastity play, dt, deportment (slave training - postures, commands, and etiquette - also part of D/s).

Fetish Exploration: You may be invited to wear fetish clothing (as a fetish bottom) like corsets or boots (cross dressing). There may be worship of gloves, boots and/or shoes. Forced female transformation may occur. Tickle torture may be imposed for tickling sceneries. I may perform examinations, water treatments (enemas), inspections, and advanced electro play in medical scenes (pre negotiated - always).



I am particular and strives to create outstanding personalized BDSM encounters. I will be appropriately attired for session. I only play with someone who will agree to relinquish control during a scene.


Health Information: Playrooms are is nonsmoking. No exchange of sexual body fluids. Biohazardous activities are not engaged. Hospital grade disinfectants are used. I am CPR certified, SSC observant, RACK aware, and consult regularly with scene friendly medical professionals concerning BDSM safety awareness.


I am a complex person who's interests and fantasies overlap and intertwine. (Some things are repeated to emphasize this point.) BDSM Qualifications: As an Internationally acclaimed Domina and BDSM filmmaker I have traveled extensively to learn technique and ideology. I began film production in 1995. 200+ films have been produced by MIB Productions. My involvement in professional FemDomBDSM includes scenes at My discretion, films, select custom videos, public appearances, a message board (now archived in members), a membership website and other websites.




You must be of consenting legal adult age to have a BDSM experience with Me


I am accepting new play partners. Be exceptional, generous, respectful, and possess the ability to clearly communicate.


Guarantee (deposit) required for a first visit



Scene interests include: Erotic and predicament Bondage, Electrics, Whipping, CP/spanking scenarios, Sadism, Sensation play, and Fetish exploration.


Safety and Responsibility: If you have a condition that places you at high risk, I will consult with scene friendly medical professionals on your behalf before you visit the studio so there will be no dangerous outcome.  If you have a cardiac implant (or heart issue) there will be no electrical or breath deprivation play for your safety.  Bondage and suspension safety techniques are observed for individuals with low body circulation. In the event of a medical emergency, 911 will be called. Get an OK from your doctor if you are unsure about the effects a BDSM session could have.  BDSM may cause the same physical stress as a heavy workout. Having a physical once a year is a good idea.


Health / safety policy: Intense sensations are fully negotiated pre play. Necessary equipment is autoclave sterilized. Chux pads are used on equipment, the space is properly cleaned, and no outdoor shoes are allowed inside. No biohazerdous activities engaged.


Limits are the sign of a healthy personality. Limits are respected as activities not engaged in. Being pushed does not mean that limits will be disrespected. Please be aware of how I think about these things.


Privacy: For discretionary reasons, do not give out My contact information. I not engage in drama and/or gossip and I am not a referral service. Respect of privacy is greatly appreciated and reciprocal.


Your request must be deemed sincere in order to receive a response.


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Introduction  pittsburghboss @ protonmail . com

I am addressed as Ms Boss via Internet

Required Information:

~ Full Name

~ Your City, State and Country

~ Your age (21+)

~ Phone number

~ A few dates and times you are available to play when I am in NYC

~ Your FemDom BDSM areas of interest (must be compatible - or no response) and your limits

~ Medical issues and medications
~ Play style
~ Your optimal scene length

~ One of the following: (Listing more that one will automatically expedite your inquiry) Two names and email addresses of Ladies you are familiar with who you have informed I will be contacting on your behalf, or a link to your professional profile on the Internet, or a link to a social media profile that bears your name

~ Something you enjoy outside of BDSM - an interest of yours


There is a 5 hour minimum. A guarantee (deposit) is required.


If I deem it necessary, a telephone call for the purpose of a scene discussion  will occur earlier on the day of play or evening prior once arrangements have been made.



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