I visit the DC Metro area August 30th and 31st

Play is consensual and play partners usually identify as one or more of the following: bondage bottom, spanking enthusiast, fetishist, cross dresser, role play psycho dramatist, masochist or slave, etc. Mark my word that you will get everything you negotiate in a complete role reversal and power exchange, as I do not project a negative attitude. Domination is about control. I am mature, educated and articulate. I am easy to get along with outside of scene play, yet extremely controlling in scene with a sharp wit, a firm hand and a great sense of humor. I am a CMU graduate with post level graduate education: A Dominant Kinky Female perfectionist, seriously Discipline minded with a wink and a sly grin. Dominatrix with a smile at your service. My satisfaction is your goal.

I am particular and strives to create outstanding personalized BDSM encounters. Do join My extensive membership website with 200+ hours of FemDom movies to view to learn about my BDSM Fem Dom interests.



Some of My scene interests include: Erotic and predicament Bondage, Electrics, Whipping, CP/spanking scenarios, Sadism, Sensation play, and Fetish exploration.


Bondage (erotic to punitive): Predicaments atop bondage furniture, suspension, body bags, rope (hemp, jute, cotton and nylon), confinements, straight jackets, bondage mitts, hoods, blindfolds and gags (sensory deprivation), encasements, mummifications, and sensory overload. Bondage with nipple play and/or CBT, and/or electric CBT, and Venus 2000 to name a few items.


Discipline (simple to strict): Corporal scenarios (bamboo, rattan, acrylic, carbonite, martinet or metal), bullwhipping (nylon and leather whips of 12, 18 and 24 plait), signal whipping - 18 plait, flogging, OTK hand spanking, hairbrush spanking, paddling, tawsing and strapping.


Sensation Play: Nipple play, CBT, CP (Corporal) with paddles, slappers, lashes, single tail, bull whips, buggy whips, signal whips, crops, and canes, and custom bondage devices, chastity play, dt, deportment (slave training - postures, commands, and etiquette - also part of D/s).


Fetishism: You may be invited to wear fetish clothing (as a fetish bottom) like corsets or boots (cross dressing). There may be worship of gloves, boots and/or shoes worn by the Mistress. Forced transformation may occur. If you desire to wear wardrobe do make arrangements at least 1 week in advance. Tickle torture may be imposed for tickling sceneries. I may use advanced electro play in medical scenes (always pre negotiated).


Health Information: Nonsmoking. No exchange of sexual body fluids. Hospital grade disinfectants are used on gear and equipment. I am CPR certified, SSC observant, RACK aware, and consults regularly with scene friendly medical professionals concerning BDSM safety awareness.


I am a complex person who's interests and fantasies overlap and intertwine. Some things are repeated to emphasize this point. As an Internationally acclaimed Domina and BDSM filmmaker I have traveled extensively to learn technique and ideology. I began film production in 1995. 200+ films have been produced by MIB Productions. My involvement in professional FemDomBDSM has included scenes at My discretion, films, select custom videos, public appearances, a message board (now archived in DomBoss.Com members), a membership website and other websites.

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Limits, Respect and Etiquette:


You must be of consenting legal adult age.

I am accepting play partners. Be exceptional, generous, respectful, and possess the ability to clearly communicate about BDSM.

Safety and Responsibility: If you have a condition that places you at high risk, I will consult with scene friendly medical professionals on your behalf before you visit the studio so there will be no dangerous outcome. If you have a cardiac implant (or heart issue) there will be no electrical or breath deprivation play for your safety. Bondage and suspension safety techniques are observed for individuals with low body circulation. In the event of a medical emergency, 911 will be called. Get an OK from your doctor if you are unsure about the effects a BDSM session could have. BDSM may cause the same physical stress as a heavy workout. Having a physical once a year is a good idea.

Health / safety policy: Intense sensations are fully negotiated pre play. Necessary equipment is autoclave sterilized. Chux pads used on equipment, studio is properly cleaned, no outdoor shoes allowed inside.

Limits: The sign of a healthy personality. Limits are respected as activities not engaged in. Being pushed does not mean that limits will be disrespected. Please be aware of how I think about these things.

Privacy: For discretionary reasons, do not give out My contact information. I do not engage in drama and/or gossip. I do not operate a BDSM session or escort referral service. Respect of privacy is greatly appreciated and reciprocal.


Please be aware: Your request must be deemed sincere in order to receive a response. There will be no response if you are vague, do not give a full name, omit your phone number (or give a false one), do not suggest dates and times, misspell or abbreviate words, mention illegal activities, or request incompatible activities.


For organizational purposes, email is necessary.

If you have not visited previously, do use one of the two contact methods below.


Introduction to Ms Boss in DC Metro

Your first and last name

Your City, State and Country

Your age (you must be a legal adult)

A landline or cellular contact phone number you may be reached at with notice if I deem it necessary

Your FemDom BDSM areas of interest and your limits

Your scene-relevant medical issues and any medications you are taking

The word on this page that is listed in all CAPS with an exclamation point
A description of your play style
Your optimal scene length (Generally between 2 to 6 hours)

A few dates and times that work for you during My listed dates.


Rates are firm and inclusive of space and gear:

The most popular current scene length when I  visit is 3 hours

*If you have not heard back via email within 24 hours, there is a good chance your inquiry was not received.

If you prefer to use a contact form or have not received a response though the email address above, do resubmit your inquiry here: Secure contact form


Preparations instructions and the exact location for the scene will be sent after a deposit has been received and emails have been exchanged discussing the scene (usually 4 more hours prior to play).



Important Information: I generally do not have an age requirement (I don't discriminate with regards to age) and have always felt that if you are old enough to go to war, you are old enough to session (you must be 18 +), but due to recent emails, I feel it's best to state the following. A professional domination scene is a luxury experience. If you are not gainfully employed or are having financial issues it is not a good idea to apply for a session, nor is it proper etiquette to attempt haggling once the rate has been firmly stated. This kind of interaction does not get things off to a good start with someone you wish to trust your mind and body to. In fact it only serves to start a negative energy exchange which can be extremely difficult to reverse once the ball starts rolling down the hill. Think of it as energy gravity. Start light from the heart and show appreciation. The Compound has existed since 1997, and it has obviously not done so by being unfair to people, or by ripping people off. If you are not experienced enough in having professional BDSM encounters to be comfortable about communication regarding the business facts (tribute) it would be best not to apply because it saves us both time if you do not. You are of course welcome to re-approach at a better time when things are more comfortable. There no hard feelings on my end. Thank you for your interest.


Privacy is respected. There are no hidden cameras and people are not filmed without consent. Obviously, I am not seeking "video slaves" - so if that is a goal, you would need to strongly petition Me, sign a model release, 2257 documents, and provide a non expired photo ID if you wanted me to film your session. My preference of course is no cameras or video taping of sessions. The Compound owns the rights to any material featuring Myself on or off premises. Outside video cameras are not allowed in sessions. I do not "film clips", but I do own and operate a C4S store that is updated with samplings from various projects. Requests for sessions to be filmed are an additional tribute (double). The extra fee quoted will cover the time spent on editing and communicating about the scene and post production. You would receive an edited DVD once completed. These terms are non negotiable if you require a film of your experience. If any of this is a problem, please do not make inquiries about having your session filmed "on the large scale". A few clips (and images) may be made on your cell phone if you bring it with you, hand it to me at the start of your session, and ask my to film you however. There is no surcharge for this activity. The content would be non commercial and for your own use, on your own device.


The following behaviors and activities are not tolerated or provided: Attempting to change or expand upon My limits before, during or after the session. BDSM equipment "storage". Asking for the return of gifts. Requests for "very little clothing", or nudity. Groping of Myself, Guest Ladies, or lewd mentions. Dildo gags or masturbation of Myself or Guest Ladies. Topping from the bottom. "Real" surgical procedures (the Compound is not a hospital), direct sexual contact (ass, breast or pussy worship), forced bi, pies, and / or cuckolding, activities ending in the word "job" or "ingus", mentoring (no free time - sorry), unsupervised bondage "abandonment", insects or animals in scene, providing slaves for forced bi, fem subs or male dominants (The Compound is strictly a Classical FemDom studio), switch or submissive sessions, "GFE" (or escort), massage or modeling, trades or bartering, personal slavery, employment opportunities, extreme physical assaults that mimic domestic violence or abuse, substances are not provided such smoking, inhalants, drugs or alcohol, permanent damage including castration is not possible, wrestling, holds or chokes do not take place, FTT or BS of any variety is not offered, written contracts for sessions are not considered, and "dating" or "shopping" does not take place. I am not a Goddess, Princess or Fin Dom. I do not require gifts or tribute outside of the time you arrange with me at the studio. Mentioning anything that specifically does not interest Me in your introductory email for any reason or addressing Me incorrectly will result in no response. I am addressed as Ms Boss at all times until I say otherwise.


Scene Writing - from those who have visited

Credit, Cancellation and No show policies


Thank you for taking the time to read this important information. It is appreciated!


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