If we have not played before an email introduction is required.

Information on how to do this may be found on this webpage.

Visited St. Louis Missouri April 24th - 26th 2014

New image of Ms Boss - taken February 14th 2015

 

While Ms Boss visits St Louis she utilizes a large well appointed private play space with full amenities. (The environment is a discreet authentic BDSM dungeon.)

 

Play is consensual. Scenes are pre-negotiated, and play partners usually identify as one or more of the following: bondage bottom, spanking enthusiast, fetishist, cross dresser, role play psycho dramatist, masochist or slave, etc. Mark my word that you will get everything you negotiate in a complete role reversal and power exchange, as Ms Boss does not project a negative attitude. Domination is about control. Ms Boss is mature, educated and articulate. She is easy to get along with outside of scene play, yet extremely controlling in scene with a sharp wit, a firm hand and a great sense of humor. She is a CMU grad with post level graduate education: A Dominant Kinky Female perfectionist, seriously Discipline minded with a wink and a sly grin. Dominatrix with a smile at your service. Her satisfaction is your goal.

 

Scene interests include: Erotic and predicament Bondage, Electrics, Whipping, CP/spanking scenarios, Sadism, Sensation play, and Fetish exploration.

Bondage (erotic to punitive): Predicaments atop bondage furniture, suspension, body bags, rope (hemp, jute, cotton and nylon), confinements, straight jackets, bondage mitts, hoods, blindfolds and gags (sensory deprivation), encasements, mummifications, and sensory overload. Bondage with nipple play and/or CBT, and/or electric CBT, Venus 2000

Discipline (simple to strict): Corporal scenarios (bamboo, rattan, acrylic, carbonite, martinet or metal), bullwhipping (nylon and leather whips of 12, 18 and 24 plait), signal whipping - 18 plait, flogging, OTK hand spanking, hairbrush spanking, paddling, tawsing and strapping. (Whippings by Ms Boss)

Sensation Exploration: Nipple play, CBT, CP (Corporal) with paddles, slappers, lashes, single tail, bull whips, buggy whips, signal whips, crops, and canes, and custom bondage devices, chastity play, dt, deportment (slave training - postures, commands, and etiquette - also part of D/s).

Fetish Play: You may be invited to wear fetish clothing (as a fetish bottom) like corsets or boots (cross dressing). There may be worship of gloves, boots and/or shoes worn by the Mistress. Forced female transformation may occur. If you desire to wear wardrobe (corset, boots, high heels etc...) in a scene with Ms Boss when she visits, do make arrangements at least 1 week in advance. Tickle torture may be imposed for tickling sceneries. Ms Boss may use advanced electro play in medical scenes (always pre negotiated).

 

Ms Boss is particular and strives to create outstanding personalized BDSM encounters.

 

Health Information: No smoking. No exchange of sexual body fluids. Hospital grade disinfectants are used on gear and equipment. Ms Boss is CPR certified, SSC observant, RACK aware, and consults regularly with scene friendly medical professionals concerning BDSM safety awareness.

 

Ms Boss is a complex person who's interests and fantasies overlap and intertwine. Some things are repeated to emphasize this point. As an Internationally acclaimed Domina and BDSM filmmaker Ms Boss has traveled extensively to learn technique and ideology. She began film production in 1995. 200+ films have been produced by MIB Productions. Her involvement in professional FemDomBDSM has included scenes at Her discretion, films, select custom videos, public appearances, a message board, a membership website and other websites.

 

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Limits, Respect and Etiquette:

  

You must be of consenting legal adult age.

 

Ms Boss is accepting play partners. Be exceptional, generous, respectful, and possess the ability to clearly communicate about BDSM.

  

Safety and Responsibility: If you have a condition that places you at high risk, Ms Boss will consult with scene friendly medical professionals on your behalf before you visit the studio so there will be no dangerous outcome. If you have a cardiac implant (or heart issue) there will be no electrical or breath deprivation play for your safety. Bondage and suspension safety techniques are observed for individuals with low body circulation. In the event of a medical emergency, 911 will be called. Get an OK from your doctor if you are unsure about the effects a BDSM session could have. BDSM may cause the same physical stress as a heavy workout. Having a physical once a year is a good idea.

 

Health / safety policy: Intense sensations are fully negotiated pre play. Necessary equipment is autoclave sterilized. Chux pads used on equipment, studio is properly cleaned, no outdoor shoes allowed inside.

 

Limits: The sign of a healthy personality. Limits are respected as activities not engaged in. Being pushed does not mean that limits will be disrespected. Please be aware of how Ms Boss thinks about these things.

  

Privacy: For discretionary reasons, do not give out Ms Boss's contact information. She does not engage in drama and/or gossip. The Compound is not an escort referral service. Respect of privacy is greatly appreciated and reciprocal. If you need a safe/sane reference in order to visit other BDSM professionals (and you are in good standing), She will write you a brief (one time) email letter which you may then forward in those situations.

 

Please be aware: Your request must be deemed sincere in order to receive a response. There will be no response if you are vague, do not give a full name, do not suggest dates and times, misspell or abbreviate words, mention illegal activities, or request incompatible activities. Repetitive (and/or unwanted) contact for no legitimate purpose is considered harassment and will be reported.

 

For organizational purposes, email is necessary.

If you have not visited previously, do use one of the two contact methods below.

 

Introduction to Ms Boss in St Louis Missouri

Your first and last name

Your City, State and Country

Your age (you must be a legal adult)

A landline or cellular contact phone number where you may be discreetly reached (we will both decide when)

A few dates and times you are available to play

Your FemDom BDSM areas of interest and your limits

Scene-relevant medical issues and any medications

The word on this page that is listed in all CAPS with an exclamation point
A description of your play style
Your optimal scene length (Generally between 2 to 6 hours)

 

BDSM scenes are 2 hours (500 and 250 for each additional hour).

A CP/spanko or foot fetish scene may be 1 hour (300).

A 100 deposit is required to schedule a first visit.

 

*If you have not heard back via email within 48 hours, there is a good chance your inquiry was not received.

If you prefer to use a contact form or have not received a response though the email address above, do resubmit your inquiry here: Secure contact form

 

Preparations instructions and the exact location of the studio will be sent after a deposit has been received and a phone consultation has taken place (usually 4 more hours prior to play).

 

The following incompatible activities are not provided: Requests for "very little clothing", or nudity. Groping or lewd mentions. Dildo gags or masturbation of Ms Boss. Topping from the bottom. (A scene discussion call or email exchange will take place prior to play.) You have obviously stumbled upon a Lady who has a Dominant vanilla personality. Heaven help you. Say your prayers and take your vitamins. She is not interested in playing with individuals who define as kingster, dominant, or switch, unless they are able to change this definition (when approaching Her) to one of bottom, submissive or slave. We are already living in a patriarchal society, so Ms Boss feels that if someone is so insecure to not understand that he will have to give up control during a FemDom session, then that person has no business seeking an audience with Her. HARRUMPH! Not provided: direct sexual contact (ass, breast or pussy worship), forced bi, pies, cuckolding, activities ending in the word "job" or "ingus", mentoring (no free time - sorry), unsupervised bondage "abandonment", insects or animals in scene, slaves or male dominants, switch sessions, "GFE" (or escort), massage or modeling, trades or bartering, personal slavery, employment opportunities, extreme physical assaults that mimic domestic violence or abuse, smoking, inhalants, drugs or alcohol, permanent damage or castration, wrestling, holds or chokes, FTT or BS of any variety, filming of sessions, written contracts, or BDSM dating.

 

The Compound Message Forum - Discussions about the Compound and MIB

Scene Writing - from those who have visited

Credit, Cancellation and No show policies

 

Thank you for taking the time to read this important information. It is appreciated!

Sincerely,

Ms Boss

 

The World Famous Pittsburgh Compound (Ms Boss's home base) is a FemDom BDSM play space containing 6 opulent theme rooms with custom built equipment to Ms Boss's exacting specifications. There you may expect dedicated play spaces, rarified atmosphere, ambience, incense, mirrors, and sound systems. (The new image above was taken at the Pittsburgh Compound.)