I return to Charlotte North Carolina in August. You may inquire.

Your application must adhere to my guidelines in order to be considered. Private introduction via email is the way to discuss an audience with me. Scene information is available by scrolling this webpage.

 

Play is consensual. Play partners usually identify as one or more of the following: bondage bottom, spanking enthusiast, fetishist, cross dresser, role play psycho dramatist, masochist or slave, etc. Mark my word that you will get everything you negotiate in a complete role reversal and power exchange, as I do not project a negative attitude. My concept of Domination is about controlling another individual consensually and intelligently with skill, focus and intent. When you are in My presence you get 100% of My Dominant attention. No degradation scenes. Everyday life is hard enough so celebrate your proclivities with someone who appreciates, understands and truly cares about your FemDom interests. We must be compatible in order to play. Either have My interests as your own, or expect to be risen to My level of play.

 

I am mature, educated and articulate - easy to get along with outside of scene play, yet extremely controlling in scene with a sharp wit, a firm hand and a great sense of humor. I am a CMU grad with post graduate level education: A Dominant Kinky Female perfectionist, seriously Discipline minded with a wink and a sly grin. Dominatrix with a smile at your service. My satisfaction is your goal!

 

Scene interests include:

Erotic and predicament Bondage, Electrics, Whipping and CP scenarios, Sadism, Sensation play, and Fetish exploration.

 

Bondage (erotic to punitive): Predicaments atop  furniture, device, metal, suspension, body bags, rope (hemp, jute, cotton and nylon), confinement (cage and /or cell), straight jackets, bondage mitts, hoods, blindfolds / gags (sensory deprivation), encasements, mummifications, and sensory overload. Bondage with nipple play and/or CBT, electro (tens, rimba, Eros tech, pleasure tech, medtronic, voice activated), Nova Pro, Venus 2000 and SKM.

Discipline (simple to strict): Strict and sensuous corporal scenarios (bamboo, rattan, acrylic, carbonite, martinet or metal), bullwhipping (nylon and leather whips of 12, 18 and 24 plait), signal whipping - 18 plait, flogging, OTK hand spanking, hairbrush spanking, paddling, tawsing and strapping.

Sadism (sensual to severe): Nipple play, CBT, CP (Corporal) with paddles, slappers, lashes, single tail, bull whips, buggy whips, signal whips, crops, and canes, and custom bondage devices, chastity play, dt, deportment (slave training - postures, commands, and etiquette - also part of D/s).

Fetishism: You may be invited to wear fetish clothing (as a fetish bottom) like corsets or boots. There may be worship of gloves, boots and/or shoes worn by the Mistress. Female transformation may occur. Tickle torture may be imposed for tickling sceneries. I may perform examinations, water treatments (the big E), inspections, and advanced electro play in medical scenes.

 

You must be of consenting legal adult age. I am accepting new play partners

 

Privacy: For discretionary reasons, do not give out my contact information. I do not engage in drama and/or gossip. I do not operate a referral service nor do I require references. I do My own leg work and energy read prior to getting to know a new person for possible play. Thank you for understanding.

 

Safety and Responsibility: If you have a condition that places you at high risk, I will consult with scene friendly medical professionals on your behalf before you visit so there will be no dangerous outcome. Please note that the space is not wheelchair accessible. The 2 playrooms span 1 flight of stairs. If you have a cardiac implant (or heart issue) there will be no electrical or breath deprivation play. Bondage and suspension safety techniques are observed for individuals with low body circulation. In the event of a medical emergency, 911 will be called. Get an OK from your doctor if you are unsure about the effects a session could have as BDSM may cause the same physical stress as a heavy workout. Having a physical once a year is a good idea.

Health: Intense sensations are fully negotiated pre play. Necessary equipment is autoclave sterilized and pre packaged prior to my arrival. Chux pads are used on and under furniture, the studio is properly cleaned, and no outdoor shoes are allowed inside. The studio is nonsmoking. No exchange of sexual body fluids occur. Hospital grade disinfectants are used.

 

Limits are the sign of a healthy personality. Limits are respected. Being pushed does not mean that limits will be disrespected. Please be aware of how I  think about these things.

I am CPR certified, SSC observant, RACK aware, and consult regularly with scene friendly medical professionals concerning BDSM safety awareness.

I am a complex person who's interests and fantasies overlap and intertwine. (Some things are repeated to emphasize this point.) As an Internationally acclaimed Domina and BDSM filmmaker I have traveled extensively to learn technique and ideology. I began film production in 1995. 200+ films have been produced by MIB Productions. My involvement in professional FemDomBDSM has included BDSM play at My discretion, films, select custom videos, public appearances, a message board (now privately archived in domboss.com/join.htm members), a membership website and other websites.

 

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I am particular and strive to create outstanding personalized BDSM encounters. I will be appropriately attired for session.  

 

An email introduction is required. A minimum of 3 days notice is generally required for a first time visit. A few weeks notice is more than sufficient for a 2 hour scene. For a longer scene more notice is fine. Be exceptional, generous, respectful, and possess the ability to clearly communicate about your scene interests.

 

Your request must be deemed sincere in order to receive a response. There will be no response if you are vague, do not give a full name, omit your phone number (or give a false one), misspell or abbreviate words, mention illegal activities, or request incompatible activities.

 

Important: Your application must adhere to my exact guidelines in order to be considered.

Introduction  pittsburghboss @ gmail . com  -  I am addressed as Ms Boss in correspondence

Required Information

~ A first and last name

~ Your City, State and Country

~ Your age (you must be a legal adult)

~ A landline or cellular contact phone number where you may be discreetly reached with advance notice if I deem necessary

~ Your FemDom BDSM areas of interest (must be compatible - or no response) and your limits

~ Scene-relevant medical issues and any medications you are on

~ One word on this page that is listed in all CAPS
~ A description of your play style
~ Your optimal scene length (Generally between 2 to 8 hours)

If you mention activities that I do not provide in your introduction, there will be no response.

 

Tribute varies for the Charlotte area when I visit, and is dependant on scene length and activities. The deposit is to be made by CC, Debit card, cash (mailed USPS), MO (mailed USPS), or a private online 3rd party billing processor of My choosing. (I do not accept gift cards in lieu of deposit or tribute.) If I have an emergency and cannot attend (which is highly unlikely) your deposit is refundable. If you have an emergency and cannot attend, your deposit may be forwarded to a future possibility. Additional policies (on tributes, deposits and rescheduling) will be sent or referred to if needed and after scheduling occurs (if necessary). Do not email me to haggle or suggest a rate as that approach will end our communication. I will quote to you what the tribute will be after reading your introductory email and deciding on how long your scene should be based on the activities you mention and what I feel is best for your scene. I will be both honest and fair. Do know however now - that nothing is available under an hour or for less than 250. There is a studio rental fee, my expense in traveling to the area and consideration about what gear I will need to bring.

 

*If you have not heard back via email within 48 hours, there is a good chance your inquiry was not received.

If you prefer to use a contact form or have not received a response though the email address above, do resubmit your inquiry here: Secure contact form

 

Preparations instructions and the exact location of the studio (which is a private 2 room home dungeon) will be sent after a deposit has been received and in depth email communication has occurred.

 

For same day inquiries (for returning guests only) a phone call by noon is best for expediencies sake.

A minimum of 3 hours advance notice is required for same day scheduling from the time your call is received.

When possible, the phone is answered for recognized guests between the hours of 10 am to noon EST.

 

Scene Writing - from those who have visited

 

 

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Important Information:

 

Media: There are rules for media participation. You would need to strongly petition Me, sign a model release, 2257 documents, and provide a non expired photo ID. The Complex in Orange California owns the rights to any video material featuring Myself on or off premises. Outside video cameras are not allowed in sessions. I do not "film clips", but I do own and operate a C4S store that is updated with samplings from various projects. Requests for sessions to be filmed are an additional tribute (double). The extra fee quoted will cover the time spent on editing and communicating about the scene pre play. (You would receive an edited DVD once completed.) These terms are non negotiable. (If any of this is a problem, please do not make inquiries about having your session filmed.)

 

The following behaviors and activities are not tolerated or provided: Attempting to change or expand upon My limits before, during or after the session. BDSM equipment "storage". Asking for the return of gifts. Requests for "very little clothing", or nudity. Groping of Myself, or lewd mentions. Dildo gags or masturbation of Myself. Topping from the bottom. "Real" surgical procedures, direct sexual contact (ass, breast or pussy worship), forced bi, pies, and / or cuckolding, activities ending in the word "job" or "ingus", mentoring (no free time - sorry), unsupervised bondage "abandonment", insects or animals in scene, providing slaves for forced bi, fem subs or male dominants, switch or submissive sessions, "GFE" (or escort), massage or modeling, trades or bartering, personal slavery, employment opportunities, extreme physical assaults that mimic domestic violence or abuse, substances are not provided such smoking, inhalants, drugs or alcohol, permanent damage including castration is not possible, wrestling, holds or chokes do not take place, FTT or BS of any variety is not offered, written contracts for sessions are not considered, and "BDSM dinner dating or drinking dating" does not take place. No findomming or "cash point meets". Mentioning any of this in your introductory email for any "reason" will result in no response.

 

I would never disrespect your time, so do respect Mine: I will give you a timeline in which to make a deposit. If no deposit is made, nothing is written down and there is likewise nothing to cancel. I do not arrange domination scenes over social media and I do not screen new applicants over the phone. Email though this site (PittsburghDominatrix.Com - pittsburghboss@gmail.com) is the method to arrange a first time scene with Me.

 

Thank you for taking the time to read this important information. It is appreciated!

Sincerely,

Ms Boss